COACHING

The Relationship Away Day

How to apply the business planning you do at work to the most important relationship you have — your partner.

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Why do we need to plan our life as a couple?

Every six months, Mrs Davidson and I book a hotel for a night and have an away day. When we tell our friends about it, they laugh.

They then stop, think and ask what our agenda is. Once we explain why we spend a day away and what we discuss, others also want to do the same.

I’d say it’s the most critical thing you can do for your relationship, your family and, of course, yourself.

What do you discuss on a relationship away day?

Before discussing the agenda, let’s discuss why it’s essential:

• It’s an opportunity for uninterrupted time together without home and family life distractions. You’ll need to leave the children behind.
• It’s a structured way to discuss your lives and everything that influences them in a calm and conducive environment.
• It’s a way to guarantee focus, with no phones, time limit, or places to be.
• And yes, it’s time for a cuddle…